How would you feel if you were setting up for a reception (not on the wedding day) & the bride was at the spa?

Is this unfair? Would you feel like she should be there helping? It is her reception after all.How would you feel if you were setting up for a reception (not on the wedding day) %26amp; the bride was at the spa?
why would you be mad? if she would do the same for you, whats the problem?





shes getting married.... dont hate her....How would you feel if you were setting up for a reception (not on the wedding day) %26amp; the bride was at the spa?
Who's hosting the reception? If someone offered to host the reception (like a family member), then the bride(and groom) is the guest of honor and should not be setting up for the party. It's just like when someone hosts a bridal or baby shower, usually the guest of honor has nothing to do with the set-up and clean up.





However, if the bride planned her own at-home reception, then she should be setting up and doing the work.





If you're hosting the party, but feel overwhelmed, then ask the bride for help. But, don't assume she's being rude on purpose. You can't get help, unless you ask.
No. I'm sure she's had a lot to deal with in the last few months, specially towards the end. If I offer to help then I do it, if she helps good, if she doesn't then I hope she can relax and be ready for her wedding day.





If it bothers ME, then I don't do it. I'm sure no one will appreciate my shitty attitude when setting up the place.
Pissed off!!! She is using and abusing her friendships. Make an excuse to go elsewhere. Or talk to her and tell her you don't feel comfortable setting up things for her reception with out her being there. She needs to be there to direct what she wants and help.
Usually a bride hires a company or people to set up the reception. Her friends and family should want to set it up for her. No I wouldnt be upset if she was at the spa. You dont have to help set up if you dont want to.
Give more info. You haven't provided enough details.





Beyond that..getting married is very stressful. You'll understand in about 10 years when you are old enough to get married. Getting a massage for an hour or two might help keep her stress level in check.
honstly i would be pissed and say i have to go to the spa or have other things to do. she is using her friends as hired help i hate when people do that.

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